Lessons

Its almost end of the year now..
Two more months till January 2009
Which by then, there are tonnes of decisions to be made and things to be done.
I'm hating the idea of deciding things on my own and totally having no idea of what to do!
I have got the feeling that what ever decision that I made in the end, I would be the one crying out loud about it =(
I wish my life is not so complicated like now..

Well, talking about end of the year..
Throughout this year.. so far.. I have learned certain things :

- Good friends are only those whom you have known for years or maybe less. But they are the ones that you actually talk to and shared your ups and downs with. Not those you have known for years but not close to and do not have anything in common with.

- Benefits speak louder than friendship (or so I learned)

- There's always two sides of a story. Its up to you to be on which side. If you can be on the neutral side, its even better. But, unfortunately, most of the time, being neutral is just adding a side dish to the main dish.

- When you have been nothing but nice to someone, it does not mean that they will do the same to you. Someday, one fine day, they gonna turn at you and point their fingers and blame you for something that you did not do on purpose. believe me, the bite will feel like even worst than a werewolf's bite.

- Do not ever go out with a "friend" who has unclear and shady things about his / her current "relationship", even if you guys are just having a-normal-regular-day-out-with-normal-friend and you do not have any feelings or to even feel anything about that particular friend. You will end up being hated by the boyfriend / girlfriend (if they ever patch things up) plus you will be the bitchiest (if this word ever existed) person EVER! And you will surely got the bonus of watching the most-disgusting-scenes pulled by the boyfriend / girlfriend to show off that the "friend" is his / hers *gross*

- Whenever things are just too hard to digest, mold your ears to your headsets and put on Marilyn Manson to the highest volume. It usually helps. A LOT! *trust me!been there done that.

- And when things got really really worst, mold your heart, brain and eyes to Stephenie Meyer's book. It helps to distract and drain your brain from those annoying things. Plus, during the "molding with Stephenie Meyer's book" time, mold your ears too, with those smooth Bossanova songs. (fyi, Back to Love in Bossa Moments is a great cd!)

- If you can't decide, take all the time you need. If those things or people can't wait for you, that means they are not meant to be and you will have better things happen to you in future. *cross your fingers!!*

- Whatever things you do or situation you are in, DO NOT FROWN! or you are gonna regret the wrinkles it cost you for a life time!

*inhale and exhale*

Alrite, those are what I learned so far.

What have You learned?